Falling in love is like being trapped in quicksand. The harder you resist the faster you drown. Like quicksand love is an innocent trap. There is nothing specific that would warn you that this pile of sand is highly viscous and might suck you down. And like quicksand you don’t know how lethal that trap could be till you are down to your neck. The best practice when you get trapped in quicksand is to stand still and give as much signs as you can asking for help. Signs though should be implicit because any sudden movement will complicate the situation. When you fall in the innocent trap of love signs are everything both partners have. Each gives a sign, implicit in a try to keep things simple but eventually this could be the problem because you are not waving but drowning.