January 04, 2010

The Story of My Life :)

Meredith Grey: Okay, here it is, your choice... it's simple, her or me, and I'm sure she is really great. But Derek, I love you, in a really, really big pretend to like your taste in music, let you eat the last piece of cheesecake, hold a radio over my head outside your window, unfortunate way that makes me hate you, love you. So pick me, choose me, love me.






13 comments:

Noblese said...

Yes, it's a simple question ... her or me ... but sometimes men could be too indecisive on what they want ... and there are women who keep pushing?!
Have a nice day dear.

Shimaa Gamal said...

Bonjour Noblese :)
I agree men are too indecisive specially when it comes to relationships. And I think women become more pushing as they get more provoked by this indecisiveness.

The choice is always simple but deciding is never as easy.

deppy said...

yes, I've noticed that about most men. Why in the earth we always got involved with such men :(, it's sad to see that we do better when it comes to decisions :(.

I like Grey's Anatomy's quotes :)

Shimaa Gamal said...

Hello Deppy

Thanks for passing by :)

I love grey's anatomy. It is just like a fresh breeze in a Cairo summer night.

And yes, women are way better in taking decisions. We have better instincts :)Especially when it comes to relationships. We just know.

Ahmad said...

how about marrying both !

Shimaa Gamal said...

In that very situation of Meredith & Derek a second wife isn't an option :) It is illegal to have 2 wives in the united states :)

Ahmad said...

amazing that in the US they accept free relations and reject polygamy, well I think it's not for everyone.

Shimaa Gamal said...

I am personally against polygamy. And I am against open relationships.

I believe that a person should be loyal to whatever he has, if he felt like changing, he should move on. There is no need to keep the old relationship.

There is no shame to fall out of love, the real shame is to claim that love can be dividable.

It is allowed in Islam but if it was a human nature it would have been the principle, and in Islam it is clear that it is the exception regardless that some men like to put it as if it is a mandate. Unfortunately, it is not :)

Ahmad said...

love can be dividable for certain men who can afford it financially and emotionally. But that's not the case for women, they are designed to devote themselves to a one man alone.

Shimaa Gamal said...

You can be surprised how good women are at dividing love.

Seriously I think that the only reason polygamy isn't allowed for women is children. You know it is not feasible to have paternity tests for every pregnancy and it is a new technology :)

This is the only obstacle. But a woman can fall in love with many men and she too can divide love but also like men the division will never be fair.

Ahmad said...

If a woman loved more than one man at a time, it won't be real love.

deppy said...

Whoa! Women can divide love only when it comes to different levels, meaning she can love her children quit equally, her siblings, but she can never love 2 men at the time, due to her tendency to be loyal and devoted(maknsh da ba2a 7alna :D). Aside from that, in polygamy(which am against btw) a man is allowed in Islam on condition that he could treat them equally and allah SWT said (فإن خفتم أن لا تعدلوا فواحدة)

Ahmad, no offense you're such a provocative!

Ahmad said...

I don't see your point.