November 06, 2009

Just a Thought

It is unfair to think that nobody cares, because there is always someone who does. It is just that we usually think that nobody cares when we want certain persons to care while knowing they never will.

This can’t be changed, and this can’t be called unfair. Even if it might at first seem as slightly unfair to care as much without having any care back, yet the way out is always easy.

Stop caring!

I will, will you?


nourita said...

i won't

Shimaa Gamal said...

I know :)

Sherif said...

We live only to care .. or else to push some other body to care ..

By the way, is a charming and emotional personality like you really able to abandon?

Shimaa Gamal said...

Bonjour Sherif
1st, here I am asking you again not to stop blogging. If you are tired, take a break. If you miss the anonymity of the beginning create a new blog that only friends can read. But please don't stop.

As for that we live to care or to push someone to care.
Does it really work pushing someone to care back? And it is really dissappointing at times when you care too much to wake up on the fact that you have wasted too much energy on a lost case.

I don't know if I can stop caring, but I think it is worth trying. I am too emotional as you said and this doesn't seem to be my best trait. I get hurt easily and too frequent. So, I will keep trying to stop caring maybe I will do it one day.

Thanks my dear for passing by.

Noblese said...

Very good thought! You are right ... the thing is with the expectations. We expect certain people to care but when they don't we are so disappointed.

Shimaa Gamal said...

Hello Noblese
It seems that expectations are the shortest cut to dissappointments.

There must be a way to fix this because life is becoming harder to live with all such dissappointments.

I hope you are enjoying your winter, how is christmas preparations going? or do you only celebrate christmas with the Egyptian church?

Noblese said...

It's a learning process, but a difficult one. At the end it's worth it.

Christmas preparations and decorations have started; weather-wise too. We have about 10 degs.

I celebrate Christmas on Dec 25th. We are from a Copt Catholic family. The Copt Orthodox celebrate Jan 7th. I tend to attend both.

Take care and enjoy the warm sunny day in Egypt.

Shimaa Gamal said...

I hope you have a blessed and Merry Christmas.
And maybe soon you will come visit and enjoy the warm sun of Egypt too :)

Noblese said...

Thanks dear.
Egypt, yes I yearn to come ... God willing Feb/March.

Shimaa Gamal said...

Masr hatnawar :)

Noblese said...

Masr is already menawara be nasha el tayebeen

Mohaly said...

Nice way to look at it.. it is all about our expectations.

Cesario said...

I promised myself that I will, but I don't know if I will be successful, but as long as I am annoyed it will work.

so, for the time being, I shall try.

Shimaa Gamal said...

I noticed that the problem is always in what we expect. Expectations aren't always based on calculations, even some calculations miss!
If only we can expect less, life would have been easier.

First, I loved your piano post ... I really wish next time you will record your experiment :)
And I agree, we all shall try. It might eventually work.