tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4546632763501563636.post3383695104064768747..comments2023-11-17T03:16:41.392+02:00Comments on Thoughts of the Thought-Less: About the CarrotShimaa Gamalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13250945889265508611noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4546632763501563636.post-16404019806147221272008-11-22T06:46:00.000+02:002008-11-22T06:46:00.000+02:00Here comes the sense my dear!! I am certain that e...Here comes the sense my dear!! I am certain that every one of us can definitely know who others feel about him /her!! and any thing other than this is either one is fooling him/herself or simply ignoring the truth out of "istihbal"!! may be that friend your friend's husband talked about is one of those. All what you have to do to relief yourself is just to stay with yourself for few minutes to know the answer, if the answer was "yes", he too considered me his best friend, then go ahead & free yourself from this feeling of guilt:)Olahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10612358030676448493noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4546632763501563636.post-75083735653156114242008-11-22T00:12:00.000+02:002008-11-22T00:12:00.000+02:00Hello Frustrated You know I have a rule dealing wi...Hello Frustrated <BR/>You know I have a rule dealing with people in general not only friends. I never ask for something that if I was asked to do I won't be doing. And I never do something if done to me I would get irritated. Yet still I bet there are people out there who think I ask for things I am not supposed to ask for and do things they would never dare to do.<BR/>Ok, I will be long but I kind of want to talk :) so please bear with me.<BR/>I have this friend, he is my friend's husband. Once he was telling me a story about a friend of his and he said, I am her friend but she is not my friend. And when I asked him to elaborate, he said that he is her best friend, she turns to him in almost everything in her life but he doesn't do the same. He has others as his best friends and for him she is just a friend.<BR/>So, what if sometimes I am not the best friend, or even the friend I think I am. What if he is on the top of my list and I am not even on this list. What if I come last? What if I depended too much in the time he didn't really want me to depend and he is again too polite to turn me down? <BR/><BR/>Anyway, it might be just my mood. I have this awful feeling of guilt. I feel that I have been a horrible daughter, horrible sister and a horrible friend.<BR/><BR/>Thanks dear for your supporting words.Shimaa Gamalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13250945889265508611noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4546632763501563636.post-42803296079301261542008-11-21T16:52:00.000+02:002008-11-21T16:52:00.000+02:00O.k, I think you can feel how he thinks in a clear...O.k, I think you can feel how he thinks in a clear way!! if he considered you his best friend really, then you don't have to worry my dear...it is always a pleasure for a friend to care about his / her friend at any time. In fact it will make him feel sad if you throw your worries and pain on someone else! This makes someone else closer to you than him!! this is the trick of friendship:DOlahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10612358030676448493noreply@blogger.com